My name is Steve
"aka" Fugster Farder
and I wish to welcome you to my hobby website.
I started this site in September 2009, it was called
Fugly Farter's World,
but as there was confusion as to the meaning of the name, I changed the
name to I guess less funny name. I guess most people understand the meaning
it meaning "Fucking Ugly"
but the meaning of FARTER
was misunderstood. In my day
FART meant "Old Man" but obviously it was confused with a bodily function.
guess its an easy mistake to make.
The name "Fugly"
remains officially, extended to a nickname form
It has a similar sound to
and although I am not a father in real terms sadly.
I have been called
young gay's who seek out older men as relationship partner's, sexual partner's
and/or confidants. My experience many either have no father or can not talk
to their father, with some actually being straight and not gay, many just
need a senior male figure they can talk too. With the introduction of the
internet, email and chat, it has been much easier to connect to other people,
as well as it offers some anonymity. I must have that sort of face I guess
as it happens quite often that I am contacted by many younger's who confide
in me, basically need someone who is not going to judge them, dismiss their
needs and feelings, take them seriously and although everyone's pain is
different I find my experiences have commonality to theirs.
I see the father,
like the mother as people who cares for, supports, guides their child through
life and into adulthood. Sadly in some situations, one or both parents fail
to fulfil that role. Don't get me wrong, I do not consider myself to be
anyone's father but coming from a non responsive situation with my father
whose only attention towards me was of abuse, mental, verbal and physical
throughout my childhood until his death in 1979. Although I have come to
terms with my childhood, understand myself lot more, I have found it does
get better, although sometimes it may not feel that way.
Anyway I hope you find something
of interest in my website, sign my guestbook, read my blog and enjoy your
stay on this my Hobby Website *hugs*